Thursday, November 20, 2008

oh, the things kids say...

i am still laughing at what audrey said to me.

Scene: in mcdonalds bathroom with audrey. she goes first, then stands in the corner as i go. she notices my stomach.


A: mom, your belly button doesn't look very nice. why isn't it pretty?

C: uh, i've given birth to three children. it stretches out your skin.

A: are you going to get surgery or something?

C: no, i don't show anyone my stomach.


(ok, so i didn't realize how closely she was watching when we saw the jon and kate plus 8 episode when kate got a tummy tuck. it showed before and after pictures, and was pretty cool. but not when your almost 5 year old makes a comment like that!)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

work out

hey guys, i only have a few minutes before i go get the kids from MDO, so this will be short. but i wanted to encourage you to take care of yourselves! i've been feeling a little guilty lately for going to the gym so much, and leaving my kids in the play area. i sometimes feel like i should be engaging them more in activities, or something like that. but this week i started up my workouts again (i've missed the last 3 weeks because of sickness, hair appointments, etc.), and i can feel such a huge difference!!!!!! when you miss a few weeks, you forget about all the good things it does for you!! i can tell you that for me, working out makes me a better mom. it gives me more energy. it helps me be more patient with my kids. it helps me appreciate my kids more. it helps me get out any frustration that i am experiencing. it increases my libido, which in turn helps my marriage. it helps me want to eat better. and not only all of that, but it increases my self image, and helps me show my kids that exercising is important. i know that not everyone can afford a gym membership. but there are ways to exercise with out going to the gym! let me tell you, taebo is an awesome work out. and there is a new video out there- turbo jam. i do this class at the gym, and it is fun, and really hard. you can walk, or jump rope. for me, the sacrifice of a gym membership is worth the sacrifice. if i am paying for something, i am for sure going to use it. but a lot of people, the convenience of staying at home is what motivates them. the other thing that motivates me (besides all of the other reasons i have already stated!) are the changes that i see in my body. since i started working out when kenzie was 6 months old, 10 or 11 months ago, i have lost 22 pounds and several inches! i am almost to my goal. it is worth the effort girls! i want to challenge you to take care of your body, and see how much better you feel!! love you all!!!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

costume party and fall festival

we went to cousin aubren's costume party. audrey was a cat
zach was a pirate, and kenzie was a ladybug.
yes, i "made" his costume.
little love bug
then on oct. 31, we had lunch with our friends the chakery's. we did a little photo shoot with the little ones before we left...
kyle and kenzie our little bugs! kyle is a spider, molly a bee, and kenz a ladybug!zach and audrey joined in even though they didn't dress up. that night we went to a fall festival at church, but it was a little hot for the girls costumes... kenzie just wore a princess dress and audrey was a ballerina. she got her face painted with a butterfly. it was so cute!!

family fun!!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

pumpkin patch- arboretum


monday we went to the pumpkin patch at the arboretum. we went with my old friend jilian and her husband and 3 of her 6 kids. it was a little chilly, but a lot of fun, and the kids had a blast. the petting zoo was one of their favorite places.

makenzie loved the baby goats and sheep! there was also a hay maze, but the kids mostly just jumped in the hay.



















there was also a little chicken that the kids loved. kenzie picked him up, but they weren't supposed to.














my beautiful children!!! gotta just love em!


















we had a wonderful picnic lunch on one of the lawns. below is jilian with shawn, abby (9mo.), luke (2 yrs.), and faith (4 yrs.).




















audrey and her friend faith!!
just trying to get them to pose!
the picture below shows their personalities perfectly...
kenzie, quiet, calm;
zach, loud, active;
audrey, show stopper, miss personality
brian and i had an argument about whether or not this would be a good background. he thought it would. and he was right. (sorry, honey!)
here we are.
friends!

jil and i with faith, luke, and kenz
this was our last ditch effort for a picture on the way out... they were all pictured out.


Thursday, October 23, 2008

focus on the family

basically, i have avoided blogging about politics, partly because i don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers, but mainly because i haven't the written skills necessary to accurately express what i feel. and a lot of the time, i don't know how i feel. but i did want to share this with you, an excerpt from the focus on the family newsletter that i received a few days ago. if you would like the newsletter in its entirety, please let me know, and i'll send it to you. it is very enlightening. it is also a little long, so i'm sorry, but i just had to share.
and as i leave you now, i am headed off to the polls for early voting...

Considering the stark differences between the two presidential candidates and the critical issues that are hanging in the balance, it's not difficult to understand why Campaign 2008 has been such a spirited affair. I'd like to take a few moments to consider what is at stake in this year's election, particularly for those of us who embrace a biblical worldview. Please understand that I will share these thoughts under the umbrella of Focus on the Family Action™, which has supported the preparation and distribution of this newsletter. Focus Action is, in turn, supported by contributions from those who do not receive tax deductible receipts for them. Thanks so much to you who made it possible.
Let's start with the need to elect a pro-family, pro-life President. The importance of this objective cannot be overstated. Between 2009 and 2012, there will likely be two or more opportunities for the President to nominate new justices to the Supreme Court. Some court watchers say there could be as many as four resignations. That alone should give us serious pause as we consider for whom to cast our votes. In the months ahead, the Supreme Court will likely hand down rulings that will impact America for generations to come. We need a President who will nominate conservative, strict-constructionist judges to the Court. If that doesn't happen, the highest court in the land could become stacked--even more than it already is--with justices who will endeavor to legislate from the bench and impose a liberal agenda on the nation. It will likely affect the definition of marriage, religious freedom, and the protection (or lack thereof) of life in the womb.
It's probably obvious which of the two major party candidates' views are most palatable to those of us who embrace a pro-life, pro-family worldview. While I will not endorse either candidate this year, I can say that I am now supportive of Senator John McCain and his bid for the presidency. This is not because I am beholden to the Senator from Arizona or to the Republican Party. Anyone who has even a passing familiarity with my views knows that I have agonized at times during this election process, and have been strongly critical of Senator McCain and the Republican Party on numerous occasions. My concern is for the biblical and moral values that I and millions of Americans hold dear. I will gladly support politicians of any stripe who are willing to defend the sanctity of human life, support the institution of traditional marriage, protect the country from terrorism and advance the cause of religious liberty. While certainly not perfect, the 2008 Republican platform comes closest to embracing those ideals by a wide margin.
In recent weeks, I have received some measure of criticism from those who feel that my "change of heart" toward John McCain is unwarranted. I understand those views and concede that the Senator continues to embrace positions that concern me. I don't apologize, however, for reevaluating our options in this election year. John Maynard Keynes, whose views I have disagreed with strongly, said this about reversing course: "When the facts change, I change my opinion. What do you do, sir?"1 In this instance, Keynes' perspective is correct. Every thinking person will eventually have reason to change his or her mind as circumstances evolve, as they have done during this long political ordeal.
There are four primary--and I believe compelling--reasons why I now view the McCain presidential candidacy favorably:
During the "Saddleback Forum" on Aug. 16, Sens. Obama and McCain fielded questions from the Saddleback Church pastor Rick Warren. Senator McCain gave very solid and encouraging answers to questions about the sanctity of life and the institution of marriage, whereas Senator Obama came down at the other end of the argument. You will recall the following interchange during the forum: Pastor Rick Warren: "At what point does a baby get human rights, in your view?" Senator Obama: "... Answering that question with specificity, you know, is, uh, is, above my pay grade."2 With all due respect, Senator, if this question is above your pay grade, then so is the job attached to it.
The Republican Party's 2008 national platform is a remarkably conservative document.3 Indeed, it is the strongest pro-life platform in the history of the party, surpassing even the pro-life advances of the Reagan years. It was approved and sanctioned by the McCain campaign.
Senator McCain selected an astonishingly strong pro-life, pro-family running mate in Governor Sarah Palin. Although he could have embraced a liberal Vice Presidential nominee, such as Senator Joe Lieberman or Tom Ridge, he made the bold decision to join forces with a VP pick whose views reflect those of the party's conservative base. I'll discuss Governor Palin's candidacy in greater detail in a moment.
The longer the campaign continues, the more concerned I have become with Barack Obama's liberal views. Certainly, he is an attractive and very charismatic candidate who has embarked on a campaign of historical proportions. However, the majority of his policies represent the antithesis of principles I hold dear. Senator Obama's record is more liberal than that of any other Democrat in the Senate4--and that's saying something! For example, when he was a state senator in Illinois, he voted four times in three years against legislation that would have saved the lives of babies that managed to survive the abortion process.5 The U.S. Senate subsequently passed similar legislation called The Born Alive Infant Protection Act by unanimous consent.6 (Obama was not a U.S. Senator at the time.) State Senator Obama was chairman of the committee that opposed this protection of babies, and in 2001 and 2002 was the only legislator who rose to argue against the Illinois Born Alive Act.7 That is an undeniable fact!
My good friend, former Pennsylvania Senator Rick Santorum published a scathing analysis of Senator Obama's pro-abortion record earlier this year. Here is an excerpt of what he wrote:
In March 2001, [Senator] Obama was the sole speaker in opposition to the bill on the floor of the Illinois Senate. He said: "We're saying they are persons entitled to the kinds of protections provided to a child, a 9-month child delivered to term. I mean, it would essentially bar abortions, because the equal protection clause does not allow somebody to kill a child."8 So according to [Senator] Obama, "they", (babies who survive abortions or any other preterm newborns,) should be permitted to be killed because giving legal protection to preterm newborns would have the effect of banning all abortions.9
To further underscore Senator Obama's radical devotion to abortion rights, he has promised that "the first thing I'd do as president" would be to sign the Freedom of Choice Act.10 The FOCA is a devastating piece of legislation that would overturn nearly every local, state, and federal anti-abortion law passed in the last 40 years.11 In fact, it's so broadly written that legal analysts suggest the bill may prevent institutions and physicians from refusing to provide abortion services by invoking the conscience clause.
Earlier this year, while talking about sex education and abortion, the Senator said the following: "I've got two daughters, 9 years old and 6 years old. I am going to teach them first of all about values and morals. But if they make a mistake, I don't want them punished with a baby."12 In other words, a pre-born baby is viewed as a form of punishment, and can therefore be murdered in the name of convenience.
It is a matter of historic significance that Barack Obama has become the first African-American to capture the nomination of a major political party for the office of President of the United States. I applaud that remarkable accomplishment. Nevertheless, I cannot support his candidacy because the positions he holds on moral, social and family issues place him at the extreme left of the political spectrum. What the Senator believes and the policies he would seek to implement are on a collision course with the biblical principles and beliefs I have fought to defend for more than 35 years.
Turning the corner, the significance of Governor Palin to the 2008 presidential race is also worthy of further consideration. Here is a woman who is a deeply committed Christian, and who is pro-life not only with regard to her policies, but in her personal life. She and her husband welcomed their latest child, Trig, into the world even though he was diagnosed with Down syndrome while still in the womb. Approximately 90 percent of babies with Down syndrome are aborted,13 but Governor Palin carried her precious child to term and now loves and cares for him despite the challenges associated with a special needs child. Similarly, her teenage daughter, Bristol, who became pregnant out of wedlock, could have bowed to cultural pressure to seek an abortion. Instead, she and the father plan to get married and raise their child together. Governor Palin has been married for 20 years, and by all accounts, she is a portrait of Christian motherhood and womanhood.
As for Governor Palin's qualifications to be Vice President of the United States and to assume the mantle of President, should that ever become necessary, she is much better suited for the job than the talking heads on the liberal Left would have you believe. She came out of nowhere to win the Alaskan gubernatorial race against a powerful incumbent. While in office, she bravely fought widespread corruption--including that within her own party--in the face of great opposition. Govenor Palin's critics suggest that her experience as mayor of a "small town" is somehow a liability, but it is an asset. In fact, her time as Mayor of Wasilla and then as Governor of Alaska gives her a greater degree of executive experience than Senator Barack Obama can claim. Her qualifications to be Vice President, I would submit, exceed those of Senator Barack Obama, who spent only 143 working days in the U.S. Senate prior to announcing his run for President.14 He authored no significant legislation during that time.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

bath time

bath time is one of the favorite times for the kiddos. last saturday we went to a friends football game, and because of the cool breeze, kenzie and i got some good sunburn. (we went all summer without a sunburn, and then get one in the middle of october!) love it!
she loves this towel... she'll walk around the house holding it on her... last night she screamed when i took it off of her! she loves it!
pjs!


new blog

just wanted you guys to check out my friend lisa's new blog. it is another one of those bargain blogs... teaches you how to save money!! gotta love that! anyways, she is a good friend, so stop by and show her some love!